The manipulator hiding behind the victim role: how to spot narcissistic tactics
Psychology experts point out that narcissistic behaviour doesn't always look loud and self-assured — sometimes a manipulator hides behind the role of a victim.
When people think of narcissism, most picture a confident, loud person who craves attention and openly displays a sense of superiority over others. This is the most common and widely recognised image of narcissistic behaviour.
However, there is another, harder-to-spot form of narcissistic behaviour — cases where a person does not show open arrogance or dominance, but instead takes on the role of a victim in order to influence and manipulate those around them. Such tactics can go unrecognised for a long time precisely because, from the outside, they don't resemble what is typically associated with narcissism.
Experts note that understanding the different forms and tactics of narcissistic behaviour is important, so that people can better recognise manipulative relationships even when the other person does not appear outwardly dominant or self-assured. Knowing that manipulation can also hide behind a seemingly vulnerable or wronged persona helps people evaluate their relationships and interactions with others more critically.
